I know!!! I just commented on this! I am FURIOUS that this is SO much of porn. Everyone has to stop making love, pull out and act like you are in the bathroom alone masturbating. I TOTALLY understand, value, and love it but no one in porn actually MAKES LOVE by ejaculating INSIDE of their lover gay or straight!!! THIS MATTERS!!! We have SO far to go as a species to get and do this RIGHT. UGH! Indeed. On top of that when guys do internal ejaculations they also do need to be filmed/videoed right. Not always but best when showing their faces as they frantically and desperately struggle so hard through orgasm. Just infuriating all of the missed opportunities.
For the name of GOD why can't guys ejaculate INSIDE of their lovers?! I am FURIOUS! I also LOVE and understand withdrawing and masturbating to show the external ejaculation but for Christ's sake! What a bunch of bull shit for real cock killers.